Family has long been the fulcrum of each of us, so what will it be like when a family breaks down or how it will be when the children are not able to fully live the love of both father and mother? What if you decide to become a single mother?
Single motherhood is hard work, not a question of many people. The answer must be a lot of hard work around. Strenuous because all jobs are alone, the mother is the father and the mother is the mother.
She needs the gentleness of a woman but also needs to be strong and strong like a man to take care of her when she has no one nearby. Those were the jobs where the company was busy, but when returning home, it was still the mother alone to shoulder.
As financial burdens alone, moms have to worry. Not only do I have to reassure myself, but I have to calm you down. Because but the question is naive but sometimes too painful: where is your father, Mom? Why don’t you have a father? Why are you alienating me because I don’t have a father?
But more than all a single, strong and rational mother to understand that the path I choose is never wrong, if it is too suffocating to maintain an emotional relationship, why not? rescue for each other?
When you are a single mother, you should still keep in touch with your child’s father because the child is not at fault, let them feel and deserve the love of both the father and the mother. . Your child will then be comforted when their parents do not live together.
One of the great ways to teach children is not to sow evil thoughts about their father in the head. Because in the innocent hearts of children, no one wants their father to be a bad person, nor is anyone so bad that he cannot afford a compliment. At least the two of you have lived together, or at least you two have the same child.
Although single-parenting and financial burdens on the shoulders are huge, you should have specific considerations about your own spending and your children. A reasonable spending plan will make you more stable and more proactive in life.